Americanism – This program is all about promoting patriotism. Members foster love of America by
teaching young people and new citizens about our heritage. Each year, Auxiliary members present flags
to schools and civic clubs, hold essay contests in schools, participate in parades and other displays
on holidays, hold POW/MIA awareness ceremonies, get out the vote programs, patriotic parades, citizenship
classes, etc.
Americanism & Auxiliary Traditions
These resources support members, families, and youth in understanding how we honor the flag,
remember our POW/MIA, and conduct our Auxiliary meetings with dignity and respect.
Flag Education for Kids
Caring for the U.S. Flag
A simple guide to help children understand how to display, respect, and properly retire the Flag of
the United States of America.
Displaying the Flag
On the same staff: U.S. Flag is always at the very top.
Grouped with other flags: U.S. Flag goes to its own right.
With other nations: all flown at the same height.
Marching: U.S. Flag is on the marcher’s right (observer’s left).
Decoration: never use the Flag as decoration; use bunting (blue, then white, then red).
Half-Staff & Respect
On special days the Flag may be flown at half-staff.
On Memorial Day: half-staff until noon, then raised to full-staff.
Saluting the Flag
Those in uniform use the military salute.
Service members and veterans not in uniform may use the military salute.
Everyone else faces the Flag, stands at attention, right hand over the heart.
If wearing a hat, remove it with the right hand and hold it at the left shoulder, hand over the heart.
Never Do This
Do not let the Flag touch the ground.
Do not fly the Flag upside down except in an emergency.
Do not carry it flat or use it to carry anything.
Do not wear the Flag as clothing or use it as a cover.
Do not store it where it can get dirty.
Do not fasten or tie it back; let it fall free.
Do not draw on or otherwise mark the Flag.
Flag Disposal
Should be done with adult supervision and in accordance with local fire codes.
Flag is folded in the traditional manner and placed on a respectfully prepared fire.
Participants may salute, recite the Pledge of Allegiance, and observe a moment of silence.
After complete burning, the fire is safely extinguished and ashes are buried.
POW/MIA Remembrance
Missing Man Ceremony Symbols
Each element at the Missing Man table carries a special meaning, honoring prisoners of war and those
missing in action, as well as the loved ones who still wait for answers.
Table Symbols & Their Meaning
Single red rose: Represents each missing life and the loved ones who keep the faith.
Red ribbon on the vase: Shows our continued determination to account for the missing.
Lemon slice on the bread plate: Reminds us of the bitter fate of those captured or missing
in a foreign land.
Pinch of salt: Symbolizes the tears of families and friends seeking answers.
The Bible: Represents the strength and comfort gained through faith for those who are lost
and those who wait at home.
Inverted glass: Shows they cannot join in the toast or celebration of the day.
Empty chairs: Express their absence and the void felt by all who remember them.
Auxiliary Ritual & Traditions
Understanding VFW Auxiliary Traditions
A brief guide to meeting etiquette, respect for the Flag and Altar, and how members participate
in ritual and business during Auxiliary meetings.
Entering a Meeting
At local Auxiliary meetings, members show a current dues card once doors are closed.
At Department and National meetings, cards are checked at the door.
The Conductor/Conductress is the only one to move about the floor unless directed by the President.
Raps of the Gavel
One rap: attention.
Two raps: rise.
Three raps: be seated.
Attention & Parade Rest
Attention: Hands at sides, head up, eyes forward.
Parade Rest: Left foot slightly out, hands at the small of the back (left thumb in right
hand), head bowed slightly during prayer.
Respecting the Flag
During Ritual, the President says "Salute” when flags enter/leave, during the Pledge, and during the
national anthem.
Members use the heart salute (right hand flat over the heart) in Auxiliary meetings.
Veterans may use the military salute if they wish.
When the Flag is displayed and the anthem is played/sung, face and salute the Flag; if not displayed, face
the music and salute.
Members should stand when the Flags are moving.
Respecting the Altar & Bible
Members remain seated while the Chaplain opens or closes the Bible, if the Colors are not at the Altar.
Movement and talking stop while the Bible is being opened or closed.
Members do not cross between the President’s station and the Altar when the Bible is open; this represents
sacred ground honoring comrades at final rest.
When the Bible is closed, members may pass through that area.
Addressing the President & Motions
All remarks are directed to the President, not to other members. Stand and say "Mister/Madam President”
and wait to be recognized.
Any member may make a motion once recognized by the President, as part of their rights and responsibilities
in the meeting.
Key U.S. Patriotic & Veterans Observances
Explore the story behind each observance and the Auxiliary traditions that bring patriotism to life in our communities.
Federal & National ObservancesVFW Auxiliary AmericanismPatriotism & Traditions
February
WASHINGTON’S BIRTHDAY (PRESIDENTS DAY)
Third Monday in February
Washington’s birthday honors George Washington, the first President of the United States. It is widely known
as "Presidents Day” by organizations other than the federal government.
Federal holiday • Origins & traditions
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Washington’s birthday honors George Washington, the first President of the United States. It is widely
known as "Presidents Day” by organizations other than the federal government in honor of other American
presidents such as Abraham Lincoln (who was born February 12). While many states have renamed their state
holiday "Presidents Day,” the legal name of the federal holiday remains "Washington’s Birthday.”
Congress first honored George Washington with a federal holiday on February 22, 1879 (Washington’s actual
birthday). On January 1, 1971, Congress shifted the federal holiday to the third Monday in February.
The holiday honors the accomplishments of Washington, who created the first military badge of merit for
the common solider. The Purple Heart Medal (revived on Washington’s 200th birthday in 1932 and bears his
image) is awarded to soldiers who are injured in battle.
By the mid-1980s, the term "Presidents Day” began to appear in public, widely due to the advertising and
marketing industries. Both "Presidents Day” and "Presidents’ Day” are correct usages of the term.
March
NATIONAL VIETNAM WAR VETERANS DAY
March 29
National Vietnam War Veterans Day honors a generation of men and women who served and sacrificed during the
longest conflict in U.S. history.
Vietnam Era • Service & sacrifice
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National Vietnam War Veterans Day honors a generation of men and women who served and sacrificed during
the longest conflict in U.S. history. March 29 marks the anniversary of when combat forces departed South
Vietnam in 1973, even though some troops remained until their final departure in 1975. According to
Department of Veterans Affairs, there were 8.7 million Vietnam Era veterans, with 3.4 million deployed
downrange. There were 47,434 combat deaths, 10,786 in-theater deaths, and 153,303 non-mortal woundings,
which also include casualties from the ill-fated SS Mayaguez rescue attempt in 1975.
In 2017, U.S. Senators Pat Toomey, R-Pa., and Joe Donnelly, D-Ind., introduced legislation to honor
Vietnam Veterans with a day on the anniversary of the withdrawal of military units from South Vietnam.
President Donald Trump signed the Vietnam War Veterans Day Act on March 28, 2017, calling for U.S. flags
to be flown on March 29 for those who served.
May
LOYALTY DAY
May 1
Loyalty Day is a day set aside for the reaffirmation of loyalty to the United States and for recognizing the
heritage of American freedom.
Patriotism • Civic heritage
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Loyalty Day is a day set aside for the reaffirmation of loyalty to the United States and for recognizing
the heritage of American freedom.
Loyalty Day originally began as "Americanization Day” in 1921 as a counter to the Communists’ May 1
celebration of the Russian Revolution. On May 1, 1930, 10,000 VFW members staged a rally at New York’s
Union Square to promote patriotism. Through a resolution adopted in 1949, May 1 evolved into Loyalty Day.
Observances began on April 28, 1950, and culminated May 1, when more than five million people across the
nation held rallies. In New York City, more than 100,000 people rallied for America. In 1958, Congress
enacted Public Law 529 proclaiming Loyalty Day a permanent fixture on the nation’s calendar.
May
V-E DAY (VICTORY IN EUROPE DAY)
May 8
Victory in Europe Day marks the formal acceptance by the Allies of Nazi Germany’s unconditional surrender of
its armed forces.
World War II • Allied victory
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Victory in Europe Day (commonly known as V-E Day), marks the formal acceptance by the Allies of World War
II of Nazi Germany’s unconditional surrender of its armed forces, therefore marking the end of World War
II.
On April 30, Adolf Hitler, the Nazi leader, committed suicide during the Battle of Berlin. Germany’s
surrender, therefore, was authorized by his successor, Reichspräsident Karl Dönitz. The act of military
surrender was signed on May 7 in Reims, France and on May 8 in Berlin, Germany.
Upon defeat of Germany (Italy having already surrendered), cheers could be heard throughout the world. In
the United States, the victory happened on President Harry Truman’s 61st birthday, and massive
celebrations took place in Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami and New York.
May
ARMED FORCES DAY
Third Saturday in May
Armed Forces Day is a day to honor Americans currently serving in the five branches of the U.S. military as
well as the National Guard and Reserve units.
Currently serving • All branches
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Armed Forces Day is a day to honor Americans currently serving in the five branches of the U.S. military
as well as the National Guard and Reserve units.
Led by the effort of President Harry S. Truman to establish a single day for Americans to thank the
nation’s military members for their service to our country, Armed Forces Day was created on August 31,
1949, following the unification of the armed forces under the U.S. Department of Defense. First observed
on May 20, 1950, the day was designed to replace separate Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force and Coast
Guard Days, but the separate days are still observed, particularly within their respective services.
May
MEMORIAL DAY
May 30 (traditional); observed last Monday in May
Memorial Day is a day to honor the men and women who died while serving in America’s Armed Forces.
Honor the fallen • Remembrance
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Memorial Day is a day to honor the men and women who died while serving in America’s Armed Forces.
Originally called "Decoration Day,” it originated after the Civil War to commemorate those who died in the
war by decorating their graves. It was declared "Memorial Day” by federal law in 1967, by which time the
remembrance had been extended to honor all Americans who died while serving in America’s armed forces.
Many people celebrate Memorial Day by visiting cemeteries and memorials; volunteers place American flags
on every grave in national cemeteries.
Memorial Day, May 30 (traditional), is a day sacred to all war veterans. America’s collective
consciousness demands that all citizens be reminded of the deaths of their fellow countrymen. By honoring
the nation’s war dead, we preserve their memory, and thus their service and sacrifice.
Flag etiquette: All U.S. flags should be displayed at half-staff during the morning
hours. At noon, they should be raised back to full-staff.
June
FLAG DAY
June 14
Flag Day is June 14 and celebrates the adoption of the flag as the official symbol for the United States:
our Stars and Stripes.
U.S. flag • Symbols & meaning
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Flag Day is June 14 and celebrates the adoption of the flag the official symbol for the United States: our
Stars and Stripes. This day was first recognized by Congress on June 14, 1777, which became known as Flag
Day.
The U.S. flag has 13 stripes: seven red and six white. A blue field with 50 stars is located next to the
staff in the upper left corner of the flag. It extends from the top to the lower edge of the fourth red
stripe. The stars are arranged in alternating rows of six and five representing the 50 states of the
United States. The stars do not represent any given state.
The colors used in the flag give special meaning to the flag: Red for valor and zeal; white for hope and
cleanliness of life; and blue -- the color of heaven -- for reverence and loyalty.
July
INDEPENDENCE DAY
July 4
Independence Day, commonly known as the Fourth of July or July Fourth, commemorates the adoption of the
Declaration of Independence from Great Britain.
Founding • Freedom & democracy
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Independence Day, commonly known as the Fourth of July or July Fourth, commemorates the adoption of the
Declaration of Independence from Great Britain.
On July 4, 1776, the signers of the Declaration of Independence asserted that all are "created equal, that
they are endowed by their creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty, and
the pursuit of happiness.” With these words, our forefathers formed a new nation and put forth a vision of
liberty and democracy that would forever alter history. Every Fourth of July, Americans celebrate this
pivotal moment in our history, which set into motion the development of a land of freedom and opportunity
unequalled in the world.
September
PATRIOT DAY
September 11
Patriot Day, also known as the National Day of Service and Remembrance, occurs on September 11 each year in
memory of those killed during the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks.
9/11 • Service & remembrance
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Patriot Day, also known as the National Day of Service and Remembrance, occurs on September 11 each year
in memory of those killed during the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks.
Those we lost September 11, 2001, will forever hold a cherished place in our hearts and in the history of
our nation. By a joint resolution approved December 18, 2001, (Public Law 107-89), Congress authorized the
President to designate September 11 of each year as "Patriot Day” to perpetuate the memory of those who
perished in the attack on America, and to pursue peace and justice in the world and security at home.
Appropriate ceremonies and activities include a moment of silence beginning at 8:46 a.m. EDT, remembrance
services and candlelight vigils. Flags should be flown at half-staff on Patriot Day.
September
CONSTITUTION DAY AND CITIZENSHIP DAY
September 17
This day commemorates the formation and signing of the U.S. Constitution on September 17, 1787 by 39
delegates to the Constitutional Convention.
Civics • Rights & responsibilities
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This day commemorates the formation and signing of the U.S. Constitution on September 17, 1787 by 39
delegates to the Constitutional Convention. This document established the framework of our government and
the rights and freedoms that "We the People” enjoy today.
In 1940, Congress designated the third Sunday in May as "I am an American Day.” In 1944, "I am an American
Day” was promoted by the U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service. On February 29, 1952, Congress moved
"I am an American Day” observation to September 17 and renamed it "Citizenship Day.” In 2004, Congress
renamed the holiday "Constitution Day and Citizenship Day” and mandated that all publicly-funded
educational institutions and all federal agencies provide educational programming on the history of the
American Constitution on this day.
September
POW/MIA RECOGNITION DAY
Third Friday in September
POW/MIA Recognition Day honors the commitments and the sacrifices made by our nation’s prisoners of war and
those who are still missing in action.
POW/MIA • National observance
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POW/MIA Recognition Day honors the commitments and the sacrifices made by our nation’s prisoners of war
and those who are still missing in action.
National POW/MIA Recognition Day is one of the six days specified by law on which the black POW/MIA flag
shall be flown over federal facilities and cemeteries, post offices and military installations. By custom,
it is on the third Friday in September.
September
GOLD STAR MOTHER’S/FAMILY’S DAY
Last Sunday in September
Gold Star Mother’s/Family’s Day honors mothers and families who have lost a service member in the line of
duty or in support of military activities.
Gold Star families • Sacrifice
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Gold Star Mother’s/Family’s Day honors mothers and families who have lost a service member in the line of
duty or in support of military activities.
The name comes from the custom of families hanging Service Flags in the window of their homes. The Service
Flag has a star for each family member in the armed forces. A blue star represents a family member in
active-duty service, a silver star represents a family member wounded or injured in a war zone and a gold
star represents a family member killed during active-duty and stands for sacrifice made for honor and
freedom.
The American Gold Star Mothers, Inc. was founded shortly after World War I by Grace Darling Seibold, who
lost her son, George Vaughn Seibold, during the war. Gold Star Mothers are often socially active, but are
non-political. Gold Star Mother’s Day was designated by Congress on June 23, 1936.
In September 2012, President Barack Obama rededicated the last Sunday in September as "Gold Star Mother’s
and Family’s Day.”
November
VETERANS DAY
November 11
Veterans Day is an opportunity to publicly commemorate the contributions of living veterans.
All who served • Living veterans
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Veterans Day is an opportunity to publicly commemorate the contributions of living veterans.
Originally called Armistice Day, it officially received its name in America in 1926 through a
congressional resolution. It became a national holiday 12 years later by similar congressional action.
If World War I had truly been "the war to end all wars,” November 11 might be still called Armistice Day.
Realizing that peace was equally preserved by veterans of World War II and Korea, Congress decided to make
the day an occasion to honor all those who have served America. In 1954, President Dwight D. Eisenhower
signed a bill proclaiming November 11 as Veterans Day. (The first Veterans Day parade took place in 1953
in Emporia, Kansas.)
A law passed in 1968 changed the national commemoration of Veterans Day to the fourth Monday in October.
It soon became apparent, however, that November 11 was a date of historic significance to many Americans.
Therefore, in 1978 Congress returned the observance to its traditional date.
December
PEARL HARBOR DAY
December 7
On the morning of December 7, 1941, Japanese bombers staged a surprise attack on U.S. military forces in
Hawaii.
World War II • Day of infamy
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On the morning of December 7, 1941, Japanese bombers staged a surprise attack on U.S. military forces in
Hawaii. In a devastating defeat, the United States suffered 2,403 casualties and destruction or damage to
nearly 20 American naval vessels, including eight battleships and more than 300 airplanes. Japanese losses
were less than 100 personnel, 29 planes, and five midget submarines.
The day after the attack, before a joint session of Congress, President Franklin D. Roosevelt asked
Congress for a declaration of war against Japan. President Roosevelt’s message conveyed the national
outrage over the Pearl Harbor attack by pronouncing December 7, 1941 "a date which will live in infamy.”
FDR was furious at Japan’s confidence in their "inevitable triumph” of the United States. On December 8,
1941, the United States declared war against Japan; on December 11, Germany and Italy declared war against
the United States.
Today, the USS Arizona Memorial on the island of Oahu honors the lives lost on the day of the attack.
Visitors to the memorial reach it via boats from the naval base at Pearl Harbor. Although December 7 is
known as Pearl Harbor Day, it is not considered a federal holiday in the United States.
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